Jan 6, 2021

Will We Lose a Generation of Kids?

I was consulting with a church a few months ago.  It's a great church that reaches thousands of people each weekend with the Gospel.  

Pre-Covid-19 they were ministering to over 600 children each weekend.  The Sunday I was there, they had 100 kids.  

This story could be told again thousands of times in churches across our nation.

Covid-19 has affected all of us in one way or another when it comes to attending church.  

One thing that burdens me heavily right now is the thousands of kids who are no longer attending church on a consistent basis.  As weeks turn into months and months turn into an entire year, I have been thinking of the spiritual ramifications.  

Is this generation of children going to grow up without any spiritual foundation to build their lives upon?  Yes, I know many churches are doing their best to keep kids engaged through online content, social media and other inventive ways.  That is all well and good, but I personally believe it can't replace or have the effect that comes from personal relationships and caring leaders at church.   

We know that discipleship happens through relationships. It happens not just by throwing content at children, but it also comes through being personally discipled by someone.  And for kids, these relationships normally happen in person...at church. Without this, I ponder what will happen to this generation of kids who are growing up without that close connection.  

Yes.  Parents are the primary influencers of kids.  But they need tools and ideas on how to do this.  Can we challenge parents to live this out through a Zoom call?  Maybe, but I personally believe this needs to be done in person to be the most effective. 

And it's not just the kids.  Thousands of volunteers across the country have stepped back from serving.  This has made things even more challenging.

There is a verse in Judges that haunts me.  Here's what it says.

"All the people of that day died. The children who came after them did not know the Lord. They did not know about the things He had done for Israel."

An entire generation was lost spiritually.  Why?  Because they didn't hear about God or know about the things He had done in the past. 

Will this verse be true for the generation following us?  Will they not know about God and His Word because it simply wasn't passed down to them?

We know now that 13% of Gen Z kids are atheists.  This is more than double the amount of adults who claim to be atheists.  As many kids don't come back to church, will this be their story as well as they grow up?

Yes, great steps are being taken to get vaccines out to people.  Hopefully, we can see Covid-19 under more control in the upcoming months.  But the tension is going to be getting the many families who have stopped attending to re-engage with in-person worship and discipleship.  

We have challenging days ahead.  We need wisdom and discernment as we help kids and families re-connect with their local church.  If we want to reach the next generation, then this must be one of our top priorities.

Your turn.  

What has been your experience through Covid-19?  

Are kids and families starting to come back to your church?

What percentage of the kids and parents have not come back yet?  

What are your doing to re-engage kids and families?

Share your thoughts with everyone in the comment section below.


This is a struggle. We are a small town church with pre COVID numbers of 30 kids on Sunday; and 20 kids on Thursdays. We have seen attendance drop with adults by more than half; and we now have 10-15 kids a week, both Sundays and Thursdays combined. It makes my heart sad.

Thanks for sharing.So appreciate your heart for kids and families. You are not alone. Most churches are having the same challenge. Let's pray and know in confidence that things will turn around with God's help. Stay faithful. You are a difference maker.

We had a BIble club and a children's church for 2 age groups, with a total of about 50 kids reached in one or the other, and some children came to both. The church children mostly came from Christian families, and the Bible club kids did not. For about 5 months, due to covid, no gatherings of more than 5 or 10 people were allowed. In our last Bible club, the Lord let us see which way the wind was blowing so we were able to give out a Gospel book with info on a great children's Bible website. I was able to send a weekly link to on line children's church, to the parents of the Sunday school kids. But the Bible club kids are pretty much not connected. We pray, that is the only children's ministry that we can have right now since the "second wave" came back here a few weeks ago (Suriname). We encourage ourselves that God is on the throne, and totally sovereign. Thus we know He is achieving great purposes in this period of time, and trust Him. But I admit, it is still personally sad and frustrating on a horizontal level. I do actively try to encourage the children's workers...

Thanks for sharing. Appreciate your heart for reaching kids with the Gospel. Keep going strong and follow God's leading. He has great days of ministry ahead for you.

Yes,Praise GOD,r church is still open 2 meeting in person. Yes r numbers hav dropped on Sunday & Wed nite services, but kids r still excited 2 attend AWANA service & Sun classes. We're down bout 30% in attendance, but PRAISE GOD 4 those who can come out. Thank U JESUS 💓

Thanks for sharing. That's good news.

My heart is very heavy. We had very few children before covid but now it seems like the end of youth and children ministry. Right before covid our youth group often went several weeks in a row with zero attendance. After covid the discouraged youth pastor, who had no youth to connect with remotely, resigned and we are struggling to find applicants. I am the children's ministry director but with no kids (other than my own) - is it really children's ministry? 4 out our 6 families moved away or stopped coming saying they are unsure if they will ever come back. Many new families have moved into the community but they have no interest in church. Me with my two elementary aged children and one other family with a baby and a toddler are the only ones under the age of 55 at church. Few over 55 come to in-person worship (45 in attendance) and my teachers and volunteers have let me know they will no longer volunteer with children's ministry if it starts up again - due to covid. It's hard trying to do Sunday school with 3 children, 2 of them being my own. I'm the only Sunday school teacher so when the other family is not at church (as they often do) I wonder why I even bother coming to church if it's just to teach my own two kids which I could do much easier at home. I started sitting in service with my kids sitting with me but many want there to be a Sunday school program running in case we get visitors. Of course they don't offer to teach. I wish I had more motivation to do more, but I'm a single mom with a full time job so I am exhausted and struggling. I find myself wishing that someone from the older generation would step up an help or at least show some compassion but many just want to hide away and work on their hobbies until the pandemic is over: "The young people should run the youth programs." What young people? There's nobody left but me.

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