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10 Ways to Become a Better Children's Ministry Leader Right Now

Want to be a better leader for your children's ministry?  Here's 10 ways to become a better leader right now.

1. Apologize when you blow it.  Instead of trying to hide your mistakes or shift blame, be quick to admit your mistakes and ask for forgiveness.

People will respect you more...and people follow those they respect.

2. Admit when you don't know the answer.  When you admit you don't know the answer, but are going to find out, people will respect you as a leader.

3. Act - don't react.  Take time to think through your responses to challenges instead of reacting to them. 

4. Give lots of positive feedback and small amounts of criticism.  People respond to encouragement...not criticism. 

5. Get to know your team members on a personal level.  Take time in meetings to ask how people's families are doing, events in their life and other personal interests.

6. Be okay with failure.  There will be times when you fail.  That's okay...As long as you learn from it and use it as a stepping stone to success.

7. Talk some...listen a lot.  Spend more time listening than you do talking.  Shift from primarily being a communicator to being a facilitator. 

8. Celebrate success.  Take time to slow down and celebrate the wins.

9. Address the hard challenges first.  There's a tendency to do the easy challenges first and procrastinate on the hard ones.   Meet the hard ones head on and it will free your mind up to focus on other tasks.

10.  Read.  Grab a leadership book and read it.  How much you grow as a leader is directly tied to how much you read.

10 Tips for Children's Ministry Leaders Under 30

I love pouring into young children's ministry leaders.  We currently have over 30 interns in our church that we are investing in.

Today I was riding with a couple of our interns and one asked me what I'd do differently if I were just starting out.  Great question.

I shared a few with him and I'd like to share some with you. (if you're over 30, you can read on as well)

Learn to lead adults.
You must be able to lead adults if you're going to be successful in children's ministry.  Sharpen your leadership skills.

Don't take things personal.
People will leave your ministry.  Families will get upset.  Volunteers will quit.  Don't take it personal.  It happens to everyone.

Do a few things well. 
Less is more.  Narrow your ministry programs to a few that are highly effective.

Become good at asking the right questions. 
Good leaders give good answers.  Great leaders ask great questions.

Develop your people skills.  
Children's Ministry is all about relationships.  Hone your people skills.

Read!  Read!  Read!
Read at least 2 books a month.  Pick books that will help you grow spiritually, grow as a leader, grow in your area of ministry, and grow in your relationships. 

Learn how to effectively manage conflict and navigate confrontation.
Study and learn how to use best practices in dealing with conflict and confrontation.

Be yourself.
Learn from others but don't try to be others.  God made you unique for a reason.  He wants to use you, not your version of someone else.

Pace yourself.
Ministry is a marathon, not a sprint.  The best way to succeed in ministry is to stay in ministry.  Find a pace that you can sustain for the long haul. 

Know yourself.
Work on being self-aware.  Know your personality type, your strengths, your weaknesses, and your tendencies.  You can only improve what you know about.

What are some other areas that leaders under 30 should concentrate on?  Share your thoughts with us in the comments section below.

7 Questions John Maxwell Would Ask You at Lunch












We are blessed to have John Maxwell on our church's teaching team.

This past Wednesday in staff meeting, he shared 7 questions to ask people so you can continue to grow as a leader.

1. What is greatest thing you have ever learned in life?

2. What are you learning now?

3. How has failure shaped your life?

4 . Who do you know that I should know?

5. What should I read?

6. What have you done that I should do?

7. How can I add value to you?

Great leaders ask great questions.  These are great questions to add to your leadership tool belt.