RELEVANT CHILDREN'S MINISTRY

When was the last time you were in an adult worship service?  If you are a children's minister / director, you may not be able to remember. 

I find that for the average children's minister, they rarely attend the adult service. For some it has been months or even years since they were able to worship with other adults. 

Why is this?

The biggest reason is lack of volunteers. They haven't been able to enlist and equip enough volunteers to run the children's ministry without them. If they tried to step out to get in the adult service, things would fall apart.

Another reason is they don't enjoy the adult service. I find that often children's ministers love children's ministry so much that they begin to feel restless when they try to sit in the adult service.  They would rather be in the children's ministry area than in the adult service. 

Another reason is because they feel like the ministry can't run without them on hand. They are striving for perfection and feel like the ministry will not function at a high level without them being involved every single minute.

A final reason is they feel guilty being in the adult service while their volunteers are serving.  If they are asking their volunteers to serve, then they feel like they should be there as well all the time.

I understand these reasons. I have personally struggled with some of these as well.  Now that these reasons have been established, let's talk about why children's ministers should attend the adult service. 

Attending the adult service helps you stay connected to the church's overall vision and direction.  It is easy to become a silo. You can become isolated from the rest of the church while you do your own thing in the world of children's ministry.  Being part of the adult service helps you stay connected to the rest of the church. 

Attending the adult service helps you grow spiritually. Hearing the Word of God taught is an important part of growing spiritually. It helps you stay healthy spiritually and keeps bitterness, resentment, discouragement, and disillusionment at bay. 

Attending the adult service sets an example for your volunteers to follow.  Hopefully you are making sure your volunteers are attending the adult service. In fact, you should make it a requirement if they want to serve in children's ministry. You should hold yourself to the same standard. 

So what do you think? 

What has been your experience in this?

Do you attend the adult service? Why or why not?

What are some other tips you can share about this?  

Share your thoughts in the comment section below. 

p.s.  Here are some resources that can help you. 

"The Formula for Building Great Volunteer Teams" book. 

"Lead Well in Children's Ministry" book.   

Volunteers. Without them, there would not be a children's ministry.  I believe they are the most essential part of what we do. 

It's important to let volunteers know how much you appreciate them.  

One study revealed that over 60 percent of volunteers have never heard the words "thank you for serving."

Showing appreciation keeps volunteers engaged. When people feel valued, they’re more likely to stay involved.  

Thanksgiving and Christmas is a great time to thank your volunteers.  Here are 20 ways you can do this. 

Idea #1 - Handwritten note.

Every week sit down and take some time to write some of your volunteers a thank you note. In a day of electronic communication, a hand written note is golden.  

Idea #2 - Give volunteers a note with a $100,000 Grand candy bar attached. Have the note say "you are priceless."

Idea #3 - Honor their years of service.

Honor their commitment. Express your appreciation for their years of service and faithfulness. 

Idea #4 - Find out what their favorite dessert or snack is and bring it to them.

Keep a list of your volunteers' favorite snacks and desserts. 

Idea #5 - Award volunteers with a "volunteer of the month" award.   Pick one volunteer per month for this and spotlight them.

Idea #6 - Host a volunteer appreciation dinner.  Serve them a meal and tell them how much you appreciate them.

Idea #7 - Give them a gift card to a coffee shop.  Better yet...meet them at the coffee shop and spend some time hanging out with them.

Idea #8 - Make a volunteer appreciation video. Grab your phone and shoot a 1-2 minute video where you brag on them and tell them how much you appreciate their heart for the next generation.

Idea #9 - Personally thank each volunteer each week when you see them.  I say this to every volunteer each week - "Thank you for serving and making a difference."

Idea #10 - Give them a Christmas ornament for their tree. Write the year and your ministry name on the ornament. You will find they will keep these and put them on their tree each year. 

Idea #11 - Almond Joy with a note that reads, “It’s a JOY having you on the team!

Idea #12 - A s’mores kit with a note that reads, “We'd like to have s’more volunteers like you! You are amazing!"

Idea #13 - A small plant with a note that reads, “Thanks for planting God’s Word in the
kids’ hearts!”

Idea #14 - Have the kids write thank you notes to them.

Idea #15 - Life Savers Candy - On a card write, "Thank you for being a kidmin Life Saver."

Idea #16 - Flashlight with a note that says "Thanks for shining Jesus' light to the kids each week."

Idea #17 - A journal and pen set.

Idea #18 - Candle that says "You are a light to the next generation."

Idea #19 - Microwave popcorn that says "You are a POPular volunteer with the kids."

Idea #20 - Give your volunteers a t-shirt with your ministry name / logo on it. 

Your turn. What are some other ways you have thanked your volunteers? Share in the comment section below.

You often hear the term "childcare" or "baby-sitting" when it comes to ministry in the early years.  

But nothing could be farther from the truth.  It is not childcare or babysitting. It is ministry at one of the most critical times in a person's life. 

The early years are extremely important when it comes to teaching people about God. So many brain connections and growth takes place in the first three years of a person's life. 

We can't afford to not have a plan to pour into the hearts of the little ones.

The Bible is very clear that we should teach little ones about Him. Look what it says about this in 2 Timothy 3:15.

and how from infancy you have known the Holy Scriptures, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus.

 Check out this verse as well.  

And Jesus said to them, “Yes; have you never read, ‘Out of the mouth of infants and nursing babies you have prepared praise’?” (Matthew 21:16).

That's our command and here are some ways you can teach babies about God.

Pray over them. 

In each nursery room have a prayer promise verse on the wall. Encourage your nursery volunteers to pray that verse over the babies each week while they are holding them. 

Sing to them. 

Have one or more Bible songs to sing to the babies. 

Show them a picture of Jesus. 

Put a picture of Jesus inside a Bible. Open the Bible and show the babies the picture. Tell them that this is a picture of Jesus and He loves them. 

Share a Bible story with them.

Communicate a simple, short Bible story.  Use pictures to go along with the story.

Partner with parents. 

Encourage young parents to teach their little ones about God. Provide them with tools and resources to do this. 

Remember...when you serve in the nursery, you are holding the next generation of church leaders. 

You are planting seeds of faith that will blossom into spiritual fruit in the years to come. 

Think about this quote by George Barna. 

In the race to a child's heart, the first one there wins.  

We must get there first and teach children about the way of salvation. 

We must teach them about the Word of God.

We must teach them about the wisdom of God.

This starts in the nursery.