Showing posts with label fruit that remains. Show all posts
Showing posts with label fruit that remains. Show all posts

Why Children's Ministry Influences Kids for a Lifetime

A study was done involving over 140 elementary students.  Their personality traits were evaluated and documented.

40 years later, they were evaluated again.  The traits they exhibited as adults mirrored the traits they had exhibited as children.

The most interesting thing to me...the researchers said though personality plays a big role in how kids turn out as adults...they also documented that life events are also a major determining factor.

The first five years of a child's life are the most formative.  Much of what a person becomes is developed during this time with the first three years being the most critical.

As a children's ministry leader, you have the unique privilege of influencing children at the most important time in their life.  What you teach them will not only make a difference in their lives now, but will stay with them for the rest of their lives.  You are helping shape their future.

John 15:16 says you will bear fruit and your fruit will remain.  The awesome thing about serving in children's ministry...you will bear fruit now and later.  You get to see the kids you invested in grow up and become adults who are serving God and making a difference. 

Be encouraged.  The fruit you see now is just the beginning.  When you influence a child...you influence them for a lifetime.  Now that is fruit that remains!

If you haven't seen the video "Now and Later" check it out and share it with your team.

3 Vital Relationships You Must Cultivate in Children's Ministry

Children's Ministry is about relationships.  And there are 3 vital relationships you must cultivate if you are going to thrive.

Volunteers.
You must be able to build a relationship with adult volunteers.  You can be the Pied Piper of kids, but if you can't connect with adults, you will fall flat.  Make sure you spend a big part of your time caring for and pouring into the adults who lead the kids.  The success of your ministry depends on the strength of your relationship with your volunteers. 

Parents.
The relationship you have with parents is just as important as the relationship you have with their kids.  If you are truly going to impact children, then you must first impact their parents.  The 7 day-a-week influence parents have with their children far outweighs the 1-2 hour influence you have with them.  Spend time getting to know parents.  Spend time teaching classes for parents.  Spend time influencing parents.

Children.
Children are just like adults.  They don't care how much you know until they know how much you care.  Get to know the kids.  Spend time talking with them.  Give them your undivided attention.

Cultivate these 3 relationships and you will see your Children's Ministry flourish and fruit that remains will blossom.