Showing posts with label children's ministry team. Show all posts
Showing posts with label children's ministry team. Show all posts

5 Reasons Volunteers Stick Around

A great volunteer team is made up of newbies and veterans.
The newbies bring fresh insight and excitement.

The veterans bring wisdom and stability.

Take a look at your team.  Do you have a good balance of newbies and veterans?

Today, let's talk about how to see new volunteers stick around and become veterans.  For this to happen, you've got to close the back door.  If you don't accomplish this, you will have constant volunteer turn over.

Here's 5 things you can do to see volunteers stick around and go the distance with you.

#1 - Be a leader that volunteers want to serve with.  If you can't get volunteers to stick around, take a look in the mirror.  In the work place, it is often said that people don't quit a job, rather they quit a boss.  If you've worked under a bad boss, you understand this. 

Treat your volunteers with respect.  Honor them.  Be kind to them.  Show them by your words and actions just how valuable they are.  Care about them, not just because they volunteer, but because they are a friend.

Here's a straightforward way to say it - Don't be a jerk to your volunteers and more of them will stick around. 

#2 - Make sure they are connected to other people on the team. Volunteers stick around because of relationships.  When they feel like they are apart of a family, they will stay connected.  Encourage veterans to mentor and build relationships with newbie volunteers.  Provide opportunities for newbies to get connected.  Three simple words that will help with this - food, fun and fellowship.  Have regular meetings that include nothing but these 3 things on the agenda.

#3 - Pour into them on a regular basis.  Remember - your goal is not to use your volunteers to build the ministry - your goal should be to use the ministry to build volunteers. 

Be focused on what Ephesians says - you are to equip the saints for the work of the ministry. 
Spend more time sharing the ministry than you do carrying the ministry.
Think of ways you can invest in volunteers.  Maybe start a small group with them?  Make sure they are attending the adult worship service?  Maybe meet them for coffee at the church and pour into them one-on-one during the week? 
Be more concerned about who they are than about what they do.  If you can help them be who they are supposed to be in Christ, then they will do what they are supposed to do for the honor and glory of God.  
#4 - Give them opportunities for growth and advancement.  As they prove themselves faithful for at least a year, give them the opportunity to step into more responsibility. 

Have you ever been in a job where there was no room for advancement?  Not very fun, is it?  You felt like you would be stuck doing the same old, same old for the rest of your life.  

Some of you reading this are in need of some new staff members.  You've searched through all the staffing websites, but can 't find anyone that would be a good fit.  All the while, your next staff member may be one of your volunteers.  This is a great scenario because the person already knows you and has the DNA of the ministry.  

At the last church I served at, we had 72 children's ministry staff members.  Out of the 72, only 5 were brought in from the outside.  The remaining 67 staff members started out as voluneers that we poured into.

If you will give volunteers the opportunity to step up into a role with more responsibility and focus, you might just find your next staff member.   

#5 - Make sure they are in a role that lines up with their interest and gifting.  Ask potential volunteers up front what role they are interested in.  More than likely they will respond by saying, "Put me anywhere you need me to be."

The problem with doing this is the fact that where you place them may not line up with their personality, passion and gifting.  

Remember...
Don't place people where you need them.   Instead, place them where they need to be.  And the place where they need to be is where they are passionate and gifted.
If you are having a lot of volunteer turn around, then this could be the problem.  You are placing volunteers where they end up serving out of duty instead of delight.  And this will eventually cause them to quit.

Take a look at your current volunteer team.  See any veteran volunteers that have been with you since the beginning?  See any Millennials?

Are you keeping people on your team?  Work on the things listed above and you will see volunteers that stick around and go the distance with you.

For more volunteer insight, check out my book "The Formula for Building Great Volunteer Teams."
It's available at this link in ebook and paperback.

Your turn.  How do you keep volunteers on your team long-term?  What causes Millennials to stick around?  How do you pour into your volunteers?  Share your thoughts, ideas and insight in the comment section below.

Building a Team That Trusts One Another

Trust.  It's a must have if you want to develop a high capacity team.

If you've ever been on a team that didn't trust each other, you know how difficult it is to function properly.

In fact, I would go so far as to say without trust, all you have is a bunch of individuals trying to nudge other team members out and striving to get "first place" on the team.

But when you do have trust on a team, cooperation happens which leads to each member becoming stronger and more effective.  Goals get met.  Average turns into extraordinary.  Good becomes great.

So how do you build a team that trusts each other?  Trust doesn't happen by accident, it has to be build into your team's DNA and that takes some time to accomplish.

Let's look at some steps that can help you build a team that trusts one another.

1. Trust is relying on the character, ability, strength, or truth of someone else.  When there is trust, team members feel safe with each other.  They feel comfortable opening up and taking risks, leaning on collaboration and protecting each other.  This results in team members sharing knowledge and communication.  It also helps confirm that no one has any "hidden agendas."

2. Let trust start with you.  Show your teammates that you trust them.  Give them assignments and then don't come behind them and try to control or micromanage their steps for completing the assignments.  Give them the big picture and the trust them to figure out the steps to get there.

And when you have important information, don't hide it or try to use it as leverage.  Share with the team the pertinent information and trust them with it.

3.  Get to know each other personally.  The more you know about a fellow teammate, the more you
will trust them.  Have team members share about their family, hobbies, life highlights and everyday struggles and challenges.  A great time to do this is at the beginning of team meetings. Set aside 10 minutes at the beginning of the meeting for team members to share about their past and present life situations.

4. Direct communication.  Team members must be committed to open, straight-forward, meaningful conversations.  Issues must be addressed and talked thorough face-to-face.  Trust isn't built by email, text messages or by second-hand conversations.  It happens by direct communication.  It sometimes happens through hard conversations.  But that makes sense does it not?  Because trust is earned, not given.

5. Have clearly defined expectations.  Give team members specific assignments they are to complete.  Encourage them to collaborate and work together.  Be very clear about who will be accomplishing what during the project.  Everyone on the team should know who is responsible for the different assignments being completed. 

Remember...it takes time to build trust...and you get there 1 small step at a time.  Why not let today be the day you take a step toward team trust?

Lead the way with establishing trust. 

Get to know your teammates. 

Use direct communication. 

Set clear expectations.

Trust me. Follow this and it will bring trust for you and your team.

3 Investments Effective Children's Ministry Leaders Make Every Week


Time is your greatest investment and there's no shortage of things vying for it, is there?  That being said...where are you investing your time each week? 

Where you choose to invest your time will determine your effectiveness in children's ministry.

There are 3 areas that I believe are the best places to invest your time as a children's ministry leader.

INVESTMENT #1 - YOURSELF
I recently shared this quote from Rick Warren and I believe it is so true.
Years ago I stopped worrying about how to grow our church and instead focused on growing me.  As I grew me, our church grew.
First and foremost, invest in yourself each week.  Yes...we are supposed to put others before ourselves...except when it comes to our own spiritual health.  Proverbs reminds us what our #1 time investment should be.
Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.          Proverbs 4:23
Everything flows from your relationship with God.  Everything.  Stop investing in yourself spiritually and you'll have nothing to invest in others.  Oh...you may keep going through the motions...but it will be a shallow, empty facade.  Don't fall into the trap of being so busy working for God that you don't have time to spend with God.  Spending time with God is the best investment you can make with your time.

INVESTMENT #2 - LEADERS
Remember...it's not what you can do...it's what you can empower others to do.  Spend time pouring into your volunteers...especially your key leaders.  I talk more about this in THE LAW OF THE FEW.  This will enable you to reproduce yourself and accomplish so much more than you could accomplish by yourself. 

Which one of your leaders will you have coffee with this week?  Which one of your leaders will you give feedback to this week?  Which one of your leaders will you hand a book to this week?  Which one of your leaders will you write a personal note of encouragement to this week?  Which one of your leaders will you email a great article you read this week?  Which one of your leaders will you meet with and give teaching tips to this week?  Which one of your leaders will you pray with this week?  Which one of your leaders will you give more responsibility to this week?

INVESTMENT #3 - FUTURE TEAM MEMBERS
The success of your children's ministry rises and falls on the strength of the volunteer team you build.  This means one of the top investments you can make with your time is inviting people to serve with you.  Week in and week out...asking people to join your team.  When it comes to building a volunteer team, there is no magic formula.  It's done one ask at a time...one person at a time.

Check your calendar.  What is it saying about your time investments?  Your time is precious.  Invest it wisely.  Invest it in yourself, your leaders and building your team.  

Your turn.  The floor is yours.  Share your thoughts about this with us in the comment section below.