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Why You Should Go to Another Church

You really should go to another church.

You may be wondering where I'm headed with this.

Here's what I mean.  Visiting another church is a great way to get fresh ideas, insight, and vision.  Here's some tips.

Call in advance.  This will give you (and them) the best experience.  They can prepare to receive you, have materials ready to give you and adjust their schedule, etc. as needed.

Come with a list of questions.  Think ahead about areas you want your ministry to grow in and have questions ready.

Visit a ministry that is where you want your ministry to be.  Find a ministry that is at the next level or is excelling in areas that you need help in.

Visit on a weekend to see their ministry in action if possible.  You will get the best ideas if you can see it real time.  Just be aware that they have ministry going on and still have to function. 

Take lots of notes and pictures.  Write it down or take a picture so you don't forget.  (ask for permission before taking pictures and don't take pictures of kids)

Don't give them advice or feedback about their ministry unless they ask for it.  You're there to learn, not to critique.  (btw - if they're wise, they will ask for your feedback)

Send them a thank you note.  They took time out of their schedule to invest in you.  Let them know you appreciate it.

Go back and debrief with your team.  What fresh ideas did you get?  What did you see that you can implement?  How can you apply what you saw to your ministry? 

We've gotten most of our best ideas from visiting other churches.  

Your turn.  The floor is yours.  Do you visit other churches?  What are some other tips for visiting other churches. 

3 Questions Every New (and veteran) Children's Leader Should Ask



As a new leader, you feel the pressure to succeed.  So you may be tempted to come roaring in with all the answers.  After all, you need to show them who's boss, right?

Actually the best thing you can do is build trust.  And the best way to build trust is to LISTEN. 

Set up meetings as soon as you get started.  These can be one-on-one or in small gatherings.  Come ready to take notes.

Ask these 3 questions and then listen...intently.

“If you were put into my role tomorrow, what would be the first three things you’d do and why?”   

“What are the three biggest barriers to our ministry going to the next level?"

"What are our three biggest opportunities for our ministry?” 

Great leaders ask lots of questions.  They gather information and then sift through it for ideas that will move the ministry forward.

P.S. - Veteran leaders who remain effective continue asking questions.

The floor is yours.  What are some more questions you believe new leaders should ask?