Showing posts with label #kidslessons. Show all posts
Showing posts with label #kidslessons. Show all posts

Why It's Crucial to Use Repetition When You Are Teaching Children

Have you noticed that kids love to watch the same show or episode over and over again? Have you noticed they love to hear the same story read again and again? 

There are reasons for this and we need to focus on this.

Repetition obviously has great benefits for children’s learning and well being. 

We know that repetition is a key part of learning.  

The Bible confirms this. Look what it says in Deuteronomy 6:7. 

"Repeat them again and again to your children. Talk about them when you are at home and when you are on the road, when you are going to bed and when you are getting up." 

Children are constantly searching for the occurrence of regularities and patterns in their lives. It makes sense that children’s brains search for repetition because it helps them learn.

Repetition helps kids feel competent and in control. We know that kids are constantly being challenged to grow and learn.  They are always being stretched.  When they are able to master challenges through repetition, it helps them feel competent. They feel a sense of control which is very important for children.

"When children return to watch the same show, what they are doing, whether they know it or not, is driven by a desire to detect and consolidate the patterns in what they are watching, hearing or reading."           Eric Smalley 

Repetition provides children with a source of comfort and security that buffers against the stress and uncertainty of the many messages and challenges coming their way.

Here's an example. Well-known stimuli, such as that TV episode they’ve already watched many times, can provide a source of comfort and security that buffers against stress and uncertainty.  

Are you using repetition when teaching kids?  

Are you being strategic by intentionally including repetition in your lesson plans?

Do you know the value of repetition?

Did you know that if a child hears something once a month that their retention rate will only be about 10%?  But if a child hears something 6 times in a month that their retention rate goes up to 90%? 

If you want your teaching to make a long-term impact in kids' lives then you need to use repetition.

Think with me about the difference between short-term memory and long-term memory.  Obviously short-term memory teaching doesn't stick with kids for a lifetime.  Long-term memory does.  

John 15:16 says this...

"...but I chose you and appointed you so that you could go and produce fruit and so that your fruit could last."

Repetition is one of the key ways that you can see fruit remain in the lives of children into adulthood and for the rest of their lives.

I know that you want to see your fruit remain.  Truth that is repeated is truth that will remain.  

As I design curriculum, I make sure that repetition is a big factor in it.  The key truth in each teaching series is repeated dozens of times. This helps kids remember the key truths for the rest of their life. 

Here is my guarantee to you.  Try one of my curriculum teaching series. If the kids don't remember the key truth of the series, then I will give you a full refund.  Yes...you read that correctly. I will give you a full refund if the kids can't remember the key truths 6 months from now...a year from now...for the rest of their life. 

I have designed the curriculum with 12 key truths.  12 key truths that are the foundation for a child growing in their faith and sticking with the faith for a lifetime. 

You can see and check out the curriculum at this link.  

Feel free to contact me if you have questions at dale@buildingchildrensministry.com.

Repeat...repeat...repeat...repeat...repeat. It is crucial. 

The Big Mistake I Made Last Week

Last week, I made a big mistake and it became very obvious when Sunday morning rolled around.

Here's what happened. I was responsible for putting together the pro presenter (video / graphic slides).  Normally when I am assigned this task, I take care of it on Thursday. I make sure it is prepared and ready to go.  

Last week, I made the mistake of procrastinating on this.  I told myself I would take care of it on Friday.  I then put it off to Saturday. 

Saturday I got busy and here's the mistake I made.  I told myself that I would go to church early on Sunday and take care of it. 

Sunday morning rolled around I got to the church early to take care of what I should have taken care of on Thursday.  

But then something happened. The file I was preparing started acting wacky.  I couldn't get it to load.  I keep getting error messages.  I called in a tech guy and he couldn't figure it out either.  

Remember when Jesus cast the demons out of the man and then they entered the pigs and ran off a cliff?  The demons ended up leaving the pigs and I believe they entered churches' audio and video systems, where today they cause havoc at the worst possible times (that's a joke).

As the class start time inched close and closer, a feeling of disappointment engulfed me.  Disappointment in myself for making the big mistake of procrastination.  I should have never depended on doing something last minute.  I had left myself no margin for fixing the problem.  

Normally, I make sure the presentation is ready to go before I leave on Thursday.  This gives me the margin I need to fix any problems that might arise before the weekend arrives.

Think about this.

Preparation or perplexity.  Those are your options.

Because of my mistake, we had to adjust the schedule and teaching plan for several grades.  It was definitely a sub par kid's service that day.  All because of my procrastination.

Do you procrastinate at times?  It normally comes back to bite you, doesn't it? 

Here are a few tips that can help you beat procrastination and not make the mistake I did.

Admit that you are procrastinating. 

Put a specific date and time you will complete the task.  Don't let anything deter you from finishing by that date and time.

Make sure the date you schedule has a time margin built in to fix any hiccups that may occur. 

Be ready to go before you go.

Lists....lists...lists...live by them.

If you are not able to finish a task due to the fact you have too much on your plate, prioritize your do list so time sensitive tasks are at the top of your list.  

Develop a rhythm and work schedule that you can sustain. If having too many tasks to complete in the amount of time you have, you may need to take some things off your plate. Better to do a few tasks that you can accomplish on time than a bunch of tasks that you can't complete due to your work load.  Less is more for sure. 

Do you have trouble with procrastination?  What are some tips or insight you have to help overcome this? Share your thoughts with us in the comment section below.

50 Largest Churches in America All Have Something in Common....Can You Guess What It Is?

Recently, I did some research and found without exception that the 50 largest churches in America all have something in common.  Can you guess what it is? 

Drumroll Please!!!!

Here's what they all have in common.

They are MULTI-SITE churches. 

It has been proven over and over again.  If you want to grow your ministry and reach more people, then multi-site is the way to go. 

I propose that all of these 50 largest churches would be platued or even declining if it wasn't for their decision to go multi-site.  I have personally been on staff at 4 multi-site churches and have witnessed the growth that mult-site ministry can bring.  At the most recent church where I was the children's pastor, in a period of 9 years we grew from 3 campuses to 10 campuses.  During this time, because of being multi-site, we grew from 10,000 in weekend attendance to 28,000 in weekend attendance across the campuses.

You can grow your ministry by using a multi-site strategy and I want to help you get there.  That's why I am hosting a webinar about multi-site children's ministry.  You will hear from 2 of the top children's ministry multi-site leaders as they share how to have a thriving multi-site children's ministry.  More info. available below. 

As an added bonus, everyone who registers will receive an ecopy of my latest children's ministry book - Lead Well in Children's Ministry ($12.99 value).

If you can't be present on the date of the webinar, no problem.  When you register, you get access to the video and audio of the sessions. Instant download and streaming formats.  Below is more info. and you can register at this link.



10 Things That Will Never Change in Children's MInistry

We talk about change all the time.  And we know change is a must if you want to continue to be relevant with kids and families.

Music styles change.  Games change.  Teaching methods change.  Theming decor changes.  Colors we paint the walls with changes.  Technology changes.  Outreach methods change. 

But today, let's take a look at 10 things that will never change in children' ministry.  Things that will remain the same over the years and decades that are ahead of us.

The Gospel.  The Gospel is at the center of everything we do in children's ministry.  Jesus died.  Jesus was buried.  Jesus rose from the dead.  Even though it happened thousands of years ago, the power of the Gospel will never diminish.  As leaders, we must make proclaiming the Gospel our top priority.  And we can do so with the confidence that the power of the unchanging Gospel is still at work today.

Relationships.  Relationships matter now.  Relationships will matter in the future.  Every child needs to be connected to a caring leader who personally knows him or her.  A leaders who invests in the child, challenges him or her and listens to him or her. 

It is through relationships that spiritual growth happens.  It is through relationships that kids are made to feel important.  It is through relationships that kids get connected to a local church.

God's Word.  The B-I-B-L-E.  It is the inspired Word of God now and forever.  It's a love letter sent to children.  It's a manual for spiritual growth.  Though people may try to discredit it, the Bible stands true forever.  Man's unbelief cannot change that. The Word of God will never change.

Volunteers.  You need more volunteers now.  And you will always need more volunteers.  Children's ministry is powered by the strength of volunteers.  Especially if you are a growing ministry.  Effective ministry happens through volunteers.  If you need to know how to grow your volunteer team, then check out my book "The Formula for Building Great Volunteer Teams."  It's available at this link.

Sin.  Everyone has sinned.  Everyone owes a penalty for their sin.  Jesus died for our sins and paid for them on the cross.  That will never change. 

While some may say to stop calling certain behaviors "sin,"  God hasn't changed His mind about what sin is.  We must continue to warn children of the pitfalls of sin.  Even when it is not "politically" correct to do so.

The Fun Factor.  Kids are wired to have fun.  They are wired to laugh, run and play.  And they hear the same question each week when mom or dad picks them up.

"Did you have fun today?"

The need for kids to have fun at church will not change.  Even when you try to hush them for long periods of time. 

And if you stop and think about it - the question "Did You Have Fun Today?" has a deeper meaning.  Parents are seeking to find out if their child was engaged with the lesson?  Did their child learn something new from God's Word that they can apply to their life?  Did they connect with a leader and other kids?

That question will always be asked.  How kids respond is up to you.

Parental involvement.  Parents will always be needed for effective ministry.  Their involvement greatly influences the spiritual growth of their child.  No matter how great the lesson is at church, the impact will be diminished if the child's parents don't talk about it during the week. 

You will always need to encourage parents to be their child's spiritual leader. 

Prayer.  Kids need to pray.  Volunteers need to pray.  Leaders need to pray.  The power of prayer will always be effective.  The "prayer of a righteous man (woman) " is just as powerful as ever.  Teach kids to pray.  Pray FOR the children.  Pray WITH the children.  

God's love.  Nothing can ever change God's love for the children in your ministry.  His love never fails.  Help kids understand just how much God loves them. Help them see His love for them is unending.

Leadership.  Children's ministries are led by leaders.  Volunteers rally to strong leadership.  The success of your ministry rises and falls on the strength of the volunteer team you build.  Your leadership is needed now.  Your leadership will be needed just as much in the future.  Especially if you are reaching kids and their parents which is resulting in growth.

So, there you have it.  10 things that will never change in children's ministry.

Your turn. What are some other things that will never change?  Share your thoughts and insights in the comment section below.