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10 Questions Children's Ministry Leaders Should Be Asking

As a children's ministry leader, the questions you ask are just as important as the answers you give.

Here are 10 questions you should be asking on a regular basis.

1.  What is working well in our ministry that we need to continue doing?

2.  What is not working well in our ministry that we need to change or stop doing?

3.  How are we helping kids and families take spiritual growth steps?

4.  How many volunteers do we need and how are we going to bring them on board?

5.  How are we equipping parents to disciple their kids?

6.  What are our lids right now and how are we going to remove them?

7.  How many first-time guests are returning and how can we get more to come back?

8.  How are we equipping our volunteers?

9.  What is our volunteer turn-over rate and how can we lessen it?

10.  How can we reach more kids and families?


What are some other questions we should be asking?  Share your thoughts with us in the comment section below.

3 Questions Every New (and veteran) Children's Leader Should Ask



As a new leader, you feel the pressure to succeed.  So you may be tempted to come roaring in with all the answers.  After all, you need to show them who's boss, right?

Actually the best thing you can do is build trust.  And the best way to build trust is to LISTEN. 

Set up meetings as soon as you get started.  These can be one-on-one or in small gatherings.  Come ready to take notes.

Ask these 3 questions and then listen...intently.

“If you were put into my role tomorrow, what would be the first three things you’d do and why?”   

“What are the three biggest barriers to our ministry going to the next level?"

"What are our three biggest opportunities for our ministry?” 

Great leaders ask lots of questions.  They gather information and then sift through it for ideas that will move the ministry forward.

P.S. - Veteran leaders who remain effective continue asking questions.

The floor is yours.  What are some more questions you believe new leaders should ask?

7 Guaranteed Steps to Improve Your Children's Ministry

Do you want to make some big improvements in your children's ministry?  Here's 7 steps that are guaranteed to bring improvement.

Identify a topic that is hindering your ministry.  Make sure it's something you don't currently have an answer for.  And make sure it's something that your team really cares about.

Get in a room....and start asking questions about the topic.  Only questions are allowed.  Set a time limit. (example: 30 minutes, 60 minutes, etc.)

Use a whiteboard and write down every question so everyone can see them.

Ask as many questions as you can in the time allotted.

Don't start trying to answer the questions yet. 

Decide which questions have the most potential to change what is hindering your ministry.  Narrow it down to 3-4 questions.

Go to work finding answers to the questions. 
  • Spend an allotted time right then working on answers.  
  • Then give everyone time to work on answers outside the initial meeting.  
    • They can work in smaller groups during this time.
    • I would suggest giving them 1-2 weeks.
  • After the 1-2 weeks are over, call another meeting with everyone.  
  • Bring together all the answers and work through them again.   
  • Finalize the best answers.  
  • Make plans and action steps based on the best answers.
You'll find that asking the right questions first and then finding the answers afterwards will be a catalyst for improving your children's ministry.

Why You Need to Be an Inspiring Children's Ministry Leader: The 10 Key Steps

Have you ever been around an inspiring leader?  After talking with them or listening to them, you were ready to go conquer any mountain.

As a children's ministry leader, it's vital that you have the ability to inspire others.

When we talk about being "inspiring" you may be thinking it has to be someone who is extremely gifted, has a charismatic personality, is a people magnet or can give dynamic, soul-stirring speeches.

If that's not you, don't worry.  That's not what being inspiring is really all about anyways.  Anyone can be inspiring if they take the right steps and work at it.

Here's 10 key steps you can take to become an inspiring children's ministry leader.

Inspiring leaders collaborate.
Do you want to inspire people?  Then include them.  Inspiring leaders don't bark down orders.  They gather people and create something together.  When people have a part in creating something instead of just being handed something, they are inspired.

Inspiring leaders develop people.
When you are intentional about pouring into people...when people know you are committed to helping them become a better person and leader...when you call people up instead of calling them out...it inspires them.  They will be drawn to you. 

Inspiring leaders empower people and then get out of the way.
Inspiring leadership and micromanaging aren't compatible.  Inspiring leaders empower people and then give them room to lead, fail, and learn from their failures.

Inspiring leaders ask the right questions.
You don't always need to have the best answer.  Just learn to ask the right questions to draw out the best answer from the team.  Lead with questions just as much or more than you do with answers.

Inspiring leaders admit their mistakes.
Be quick to admit your mistakes.  Be the first one to apologize.  Humility and transparency inspires others.

Inspiring leaders lead by example.
Go the second mile and when you ask your team to go the second mile, go the third mile.  Inspiration is caught by example more than it is taught by words.

Inspiring leaders build relationships.

Inspiring leaders don't lead by title or position...they lead by relationships.  Love people for who they are instead of for what they can do.  When people know you really care about them, their hearts will be drawn to you.  Inspiration is created through relationship.

Inspiring leaders give away the credit for wins and take the blame for failures.
It inspires people when you put them in the spotlight instead of yourself.  It also inspires people when they know you've got their back and when something goes wrong, you take the ultimate responsibility. 

Inspiring leaders continually fill people's vision tank.
Constantly share the "why" of what your team does.  Realize that vision leaks, so keep the vision front and center.  And you don't have to be an "inspirational" speaker to do this.  This is done just as effectively in small gatherings or individually. 

Inspiring leaders are faithful.
There is something about long term faithfulness that inspires people.  You will find the longer you are in ministry, the more inspiration potential you will have.  Time and experience are two of your best inspiration allies.  Stay the course. 

What are some other traits of inspiring leaders?
What are some traits in leaders that have personally inspired you?

Share your thoughts with us in the comment section below.