Showing posts with label kid culture. Show all posts
Showing posts with label kid culture. Show all posts

What's Cool With Kids Going into 2019

If you are in children's ministry, you are a missionary.  Yes, you read it correctly.  You are a missionary to kids.

When a missionary goes to a foreign country, he or she prepares by learning everything he or she can learn about the country.

What language do they speak?

What do they wear?

What do they value?

What does family mean for them?

What is their religious history?

What kind of entertainment do they enjoy?

If you are going to connect with today's kids, then you have to find out what they deem "cool."  Why?
Because it shows them you care enough to enter their world.  It also gives you common talking points so you can get to know them.

So what is "cool" in the world of kids going into a new year?  Let's look at a few.

Spongebob Squarepants (cartoon show)

Star Wars Episode III: Return of the Sith (movie)

Miraculous: Tales of Ladybug and Cat Noir (TV show - Netflix)

My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic (TV series)

Star vs. the Forces of Evil (TV series)

Gravity Falls (TV series)

Paw Patrol  (TV series)

Pokemon (TV series. game, collectibles)

The Amazing World of Gumball (TV series)

Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles (movie, TV series)

Incredibles 2  (movie)

Smallfoot (movie)

Ralph Breaks the Internet: Wreck It Ralph 2 (movie)

Avengers: Infinity Wars  (movie)

Jurassic Park: Fallen Kingdom (movie)

Ant-Man and the Wasp (movie)

Baby Shark (song)

Party in the Elevator (song)

Kidz Bop (song)

Cheerios (food)

Rice Krispies (food)

Raisin' Brand (food)

No Tears Left to Cry (song by Ariana Grande)

Taylor Swift (music)

In My Blood  (song by Shawn Mendes)

Finesse (music)

Fortnite  (video game)

Grand Theft Auto V (video game)

Mindcraft (video game)

Assasin's Creed (video game)

Call of Duty WW2 (video game)

iPhone (technology)

iPad (technology)

Nintendo Switch (game system)

Xbox(game system)

Lego Dimensions (game system / construction blocks)

Hatchimals (toy)

LOL Surprise (toy)

Little Live Pets: My Kissing Puppy (toy)

BB-9E App-Enabled Droid with Droid Trainer (toy)

Googly Eyes (game)

Paw Patrol / Sea Patrol (TV show / game)

Harry Potter Hogwarts Battle (game)

Lego: Make Your on Movie (toys / video)

Despicable Me 3 ‘Talking Jail Time Tom’ Minion (movie)

LuvaBella Baby Doll (toy)

Lego: Super Hero Girls (toy)

DreamWorks Trolls ‘Hug Time’ Poppy (toy)

Nike (apparel)

Under Armour (apparel)

Pie Face Game (game)

All-New Fire HD 10 Kids Edition Tablet (technology)

Emoji Gumball Machine with Starter Gumballs (toy)

Speak Out Game (game)

Dubble Bubble Gum (game)

Sour Patch Kids (candy)

Skittles (candy)

Pizza (food)

Chick-Fil-A (food)

Nintendo Switch (video game)

McDonald's (food)

Dairy Queen (food)

You can Google any of these to get more info. about these popular items for kids.  You can then use these as talking points to connect with kids and engage them in conversation. 

When you talk with kids about items from their world, they are often surprised that you are in the know.  It shows kids that you care enough about them to learn what is important to them.  And that will cause them to open up to you and receive what you have to say. 

Your turn.  What popular item is not on the list?  Share your items in the comment section below.

*this is not an endorsement of the products listed - it is simply the results of a survey done among the general public.

Top 50 Brands Gen Z Kids Like

I often talk about how children's ministry leaders are like a missionary.  A missionary learns the language, cultural preferences, music, foods, etc. of the people he/she is trying to reach.  This helps the missionary create connection points.

We are missionaries to kids.  And if we are going to connect with them, then we need to do the same thing a missionary to another country does.  Learn about what they like.  Learn about what they play.  Learn about what video games they like.  You get the point.  

To help with this, here are the top 50 brands that Gen Z (today's kids) kids like.  I want to encourage you to look thru this list, better yet, look through this list with your team.  Ask yourselves questions like...

Why do kids like this?

What can we learn from this?

What ideas from this can we incorporate into our children's ministry?

What changes should we make to stay relevant for today's kids?

Here are the top 50 brands Gen Z kids like...

1. YouTube
2. Netflix
3. Iphone
4. McDonalds
5. Oreo
6. MM's
7. Doritto's
8. iPod
9. Xbox
10. Google
11. Fortnite
12. Hershey's
13. Nike
14. Crayola
15. Playstation
16, Cheetos
17. Lays
18. Reeses
19. Disney
20. Skittles
21. Nintendo Switch
22. Lego
23. Chips Ahoy
24. Avengers
25. Kit Kats
26. Pop Tarts
27. Instagram
28. Snap Chat
29. Kraft
30. Cartoon Network
31. Black Panther
32. Nick
33. Coke
34. Snickers
35. Halo's
36. Sour Patch
37. Game Stop
38. Minecraft
39. Starburst
40. Amazon
41. Elmer's
42. hulu
43. Pepsi
44. Goldfish Crackers
45.YouTube for kids
46. Roblox
47. Taco Bell
48. Lunchables
49. Under Armor
50. Bing

Top Ten Kid Stars on YouTube

It is truly amazing what kids can do if they are only given an opportunity.

We talk about kids being the church of tomorrow, and yes, that is true.

But they are also the church of today.

And it's time we start giving kids more opportunities to serve at church and in the community.  For way too long, we've told kids to sit still and be quiet in church. Then we wonder why, when they grow up, they are sitting on a church pew and not making an impact for God's kingdom.  It's because we told them to sit still and be quiet.  Habits formed early in life tend to transition into adulthood.

I am listing these top 10 You Tube stars to show what kids can do when given the opportunity.  They can bring creativity and freshness to the table.  They can bring new perspectives, if we will step back and let them lead strong.  They can create amazing content.

1. Ryan's Toys Review



Ryan is a 6-year-old who reviews toys for viewers multiple times a week.  He is the most subscribed child on YouTube with 9.4 million subscribers and more than 16.5 trillion video views.  


2. EvenTube



Evan, is a 12-year-old toy reviewer.  His earns over $1.3 million dollars a year through his channel. His channel has over 4.6 million subscribers.

 
3. Kids' Toys



Kids' Toys features two sisters, Quincy Faye and Laurice, who review the latest children's toys.  They live in the Philippines and have over 2.4 million subscribers.  They've had 2.9 trillion video views in 4.5 years.


4. Seven Awesome Kids

   
Seven Awesome Kids shows the lives and thoughts of girls 0-12 every day of the week.  It showcases the girls wild imaginations through funny skits. They have 1.8 million subscribers.


5. EthanGamer



Ethan is 10 years old and has become a social media star.  He has 1.7 million subscribers.  His content is age-appropriate and he has an enthusiastic attitude which draws a new generation of social media users.


6. BabyTeeth4
 

Jillian and Addie, ages 12 and 9, are the stars of  babyteeth4.  The two sisters are famous for their kid candy reviews, which feature their funny, honest reactions to candy. They also have two other series which have drawn in tens of millions of views.

 
7. B2CuteCupcakes


 
This channel is ran by a 12-year-old social media star named Bee.  Bee has a bubbly personality and demonstrates DIY's, trends, toys reviews and kid life hacks.  


8.  Hulyan Maya

 
Hulyan and Maya are the stars of the YouTube channel called Hulyan Maya.  They have over 1.4 million subscribers.  They test toys out.  They are bringing in over a million dollars through their channel and have been featured on NBC's Today Show.
 

9.  Hailey's Magical Playhouse



Hailey’s Magical Playhouse is where 6-year-old girl Hailey comes to play.  She does things like toy unboxings, surprise eggs, costume dress-ups, and other indoor and outdoor play activities.  She has 1.3 million subscribers.  She loves Disney as well and brings characters into her show.


10. Naiah and Elli Toys Show



Naiah is 5 and Elli is 6.  They have a toy parody channel.  They love doing silly skits and funny 
commentaries when they unbox toys.  They have 1.2 million subscribers.

When we begin turning kids' attention to making a kingdom impact,  we will see many of them rise to the challenge.  As we give them the space and time they need to express themselves creatively, we will see them turn thousands of people into followers of Jesus. 

Let Them Build It and They Will Come

Last week, I shared an article about why Toys R' Us is closing all it's stores.

They are not alone.  In this new era, where online purchasing rules and brick and mortar stores like Barne's & Nobles, Claires, The Limited and more are closing by the hundreds, there is a different type of store for kids and families that is thriving.

Build-A-Bear Workshop was founded in 1997.  It's first store was in the St. Louis Galleria mall.  By 2010, the company had grown to over 400 stores worldwide. And in February, they announced their 4th straight year of profitability.  In the last five years, Build-A-Bear has expanded its physical footprint by 12%.  BTW - they are debt-free.

So, what does Build-A-Bear have that the other retailers don't?  I believe it's this.
Rather than having a strategy of "Build it and they will come," they have the strategy of "LET THEM BUILD IT and they will come."
There's a big difference between the two.  Let's take a closer look at why Build-A-Bear is thriving, while other kid and family-targeted retailers are sinking. 

Build-A-Bear offers kids and families a hands-on, interactive, learner-based experience.  Today's kids and families don't want to sit passively while you try to "entertain" them or "sell them a product."  They want to be involved.  They want active entertainment rather than passive entertainment.

At Build-A-Bear, there is a large container in the middle of the store, that contains the "stuffing" kids and families can use to build their own stuffed animal.  Kids and families go through an interactive process in which they assemble and customize their stuffed animal.

If you want to attract kids and families to your church, then you need to offer them hands-on, active learning opportunities.  Bring this into your lessons, events, activities, programs, etc. and they will come.

There are lots of ways you can do this.  Here are a couple of examples.  At one of our Christmas events, we set up tables where kids and their parents could decorate and customize their very own Christmas ornaments.  The response was overwhelming.  Another time, we told families they would have the opportunity to assemble food packages together after the service that would be sent to a needy country.  Attendance spiked that weekend.  Why?  Kids and families are looking for hands-on, interactive opportunities.

Build-A-Bear gives kids and families the opportunity to unleash their creativity and customize.  Kids and families resonate with their tagline - The Most Fun You'll Ever Make."  They resonate with the unique opportunity to create their own, personalized stuffed animals.  Kids can choose their favorite bear, elephant, rabbit, pony, etc. from a bin and then continue down row after row of accessories, customizing everything from sunglasses to clothes to lightsaber color to hair texture to backpack design to smell.

If you want kids and families to love your church, give them opportunities to be creative.  Crafts.  Art.  Video.  Building things. 

Build-A-Bear gives kids and families the opportunity to contribute to a cause.  They have been engaged in numerous charities, including giving over $1 million dollars to the World Wildlife Fund. As part of their 10th anniversary celebration, they built 11 playgrounds.  They have donated over $11 million dollars to child and family causes.

Millennial parents and their Gen Z kids are drawn toward organizations that have a clear mission to make a difference in the world.  Giving them the opportunity to be part of your mission will engage them with your ministry.

Build-A-Bear stays current with kid and family culture.  They tie into the culture by offering kids the opportunity to make stuffed animals based on movies and themes that are popular at the time.

A few examples of themes they have done are The Cat in the Hat, Shrek, a Cody Maverick penguin from Surf's Up, a toy Mumble from Happy Feet, a toy E.B from Hop, both Alvin and Brittany from Alvin and the Chipmunks, a Jonas dog, a Wizards of Waverly Place bear, My Little Pony, Hello Kitty and Zhu Zhu pets.

While their staple is the traditional teddy bear, they have also been willing to change and adapt to stay relevant to the culture. 
The stuffing inside stays the same, but the packaging and theming that contains the stuffing changes as needed. 
Churches that want to attract kids and families must be willing to change and adapt how they present God's Word to stay connected to today's kids and families.  The "inside" - God's Word - doesn't change, but how we package it must change to stay relevant and reach today's kids and families.

Build-A-Bear gives kids and families the opportunity to build relationships.  Another one of their taglines has been "Where Best Friends Are Made."  Kids often go with a friend to the store to experience Build-a-Bear together.  And it can be a bonding experience for kids and their parents.

Churches that want to reach kids and families should make fostering relationships a top priority.  This means giving kids and parents the opportunity to be part of a small group where they be known, cared for and find community.

Build-A-Bear celebrates family milestones.  With their "Build-A-Party," they offer a "cele-bear-ation" for special occasions like birthdays, gender reveals, graduations, engagements, anniversaries and more.  Families can pick their own celebration theme and then Build-A-Bear helps them plan their celebration.

This is so valuable for churches to know.  Churches that make celebrating family milestones like baby dedication, baptism, graduations, etc. will make a big impact in the lives of families. 

Build-A-Bear helps families make memories.  If you want to attract today's families, then you've got to give them the opportunity to make a memory together.  What you do has to be something special that they can't get if they stay home or watch online.

When kids and families leave Build-A-Bear, they leave with a memory.  A memory that has an emotional attachment.  The memory is what grabs them and keeps them coming back. 

Build-A-Bear is cross-generational.  They don't just target kids, but their parents as well.  There are accessories for parents like motorcycles clothes and sports teams.  Churches that want to reach entire families must target not just kids, but their parents and grandparents as well.

Always be thinking not just about kids, but parents as well.

Let's recap.  If you want to see your church attract kids and families...
  • offer kids and families a hands-on, interactive, learner-based experience
  • give kids and families the opportunity to create and customize
  • provide kids and families with the opportunity to contribute to a cause
  • stay current with kid and family culture
  • structure your ministry so relationships can be fostered
  • celebrate family milestones
  • help families make memories
  • target all generations
Let them build it...and they will come!

2018 Kids' Choice Awards Gives Great Insight Into Current Kid Culture (the complete list)

The annual Nickelodeon Kids' Choice Awards show was held just a few days ago.  The show honors the year's biggest television, movie, YouTube and music acts.  Winners are chosen by kids who watch the Nickelodeon networks.

Since the winners are chosen by kids, the show gives great insight into current kid culture.

Let's take a look at the 2018 winners and what we can learn from them.

Favorite Movie: Jumanji: Welcome to the Jungle
  • Kids love adventure.
  • Kids love the excitement of the unknown.
  • Kids love challenges.
Favorite Movie Actor: Dwayne Johnson (Dr. Smolder Bravestone, Jumanji: Welcome to the Jungle)
  • Kids admire people who lead them on an adventure.
  • Kids admire people that have a strong purpose and are determined.
  • Kids admire people that will push them outside their comfort zone.
Favorite Movie Actress: Zendaya (Anne Wheeler, The Greatest Showman & Michelle “MJ” Jones, Spider-Man: Homecoming)
  • Kids admire people who overcome discrimination (Zendaya).
  • Kids identify with the story of an introvert who overcomes not feeling truly accepted and goes on to do great things (Zendaya).
  • Many kids identify with a loner who has few, if any friends and long to be known and loved by others (MJ).
Favorite Animated Movie: Coco
  • Family bonds and ties are important to kids.
  • Kids identify with Miguel, a young boy who pursues his passion in spite of his family being apprehensive about it.
  • Kids love pets.
Favorite Music Group: Fifth Harmony
  • Fifth Harmony is an American girl group based in Miami, composed of Ally Brooke, Normani, Dinah Jane and Lauren Jauregui.
  • Their music style is pop and R&B.
Favorite Male Artist: Shawn Mendes
  • Shawn is a Canadian singer and songwriter.  He first attracted a following in 2013, when he began posting song covers on the video-sharing application Vine.
  • His music style is pop, folk pop and pop rock.
Favorite Female Artist: Demi Lovato
  • Demi is a singer, songwriter, actress, author and philanthropist.  Her career started young when she was on the children's television show "Barney and Friends."
  • Her struggles with bipolar disorder, addiction, an eating disorder, and self-harm received significant media attention in the 2010s, in response to which she released the book Staying Strong: 365 Days a Year (2013) and a YouTube documentary about her life and career, Demi Lovato: Simply Complicated (2017).
  • Her music style is pop, pop rock and R&B.
Favorite Song: "Shape of You" by Ed Sheeran
  • The melody in this song uses a pentatonic scale, which is one of the most used scales in the history of music.  It is a simple scale made of five notes and can be found in songs like Amazing Grade and My Girl.
  • The song is about physical love and relationships from a secular viewpoint.
Favorite Breakout Artist: Camila Cabello 
  • Camila is a Cuban-American singer and songwriter. She rose to fame as a member of the girl group Fifth Harmony, which was formed during the second season of The X Factor US in 2012.  She went on to pursue a solo career and in 2018, her single "Havana" reached number one on the charts.
  • Her music style is pop and R&B.
Favorite Global Music Star: ASIA: BTS
  • BTS (Bangtan Boys), is a seven-member South Korean boy band.  
  • Their music style is K-pop, hip hop, R&B and EDM.
Television Show: Stranger Things
  • Kids love mystery. 
  • Kids love secret experiments.
  • Kids love supernatural forces at work.
Favorite Cartoon: SpongeBob SquarePants
  • SpongeBob is optimistic.
  • SpongeBob is brave.
  • SpongeBob keeps kids' attention by mixing it up with various plots.
Favorite TV Actor: Henry Hart from Henry Danger (Jace Norman)
  • Kids want to be a superhero and identify with him.
  • Kids love gadgets that enable them to do extraordinary things.
  • Kids want to make a difference and Henry helps save people's lives.
Favorite TV Actress: Millie Bobby Brown (Eleven, Stranger Things)
  • Just like Henry Hart, she has superpowers.  Kids want to be powerful and are drawn to superheroes.
Favorite Funny YouTube Creator: Liza Koshy
  • Kids love humor and Liza delivers with ridiculous jokes, facial expressions and comments.
Favorite Musical YouTube Creator: JoJo Siwa
  • JoJo appeals to pre-teen girls. She documents routine, age-appropriate behaviors and activities such as being nice and doing chores. 
  • Kids are drawn to her willingness to be unique. 
  • Kids are drawn to her creativity as she makes dresses out of garbage bags and creates her own line of accessories including hair-bows.
  • She also speaks out against bullying.
Favorite Instagram Pet: Jiffpom
  • Kids love animals. 
  • Kids love pets.
Favorite Dance Trend: Backpack Kid
  • Backpack Kid is Russell Horning.  He does funny dance moves that kids like. 
  • He doesn't claim to be a great dancer and looks like an "average kid."  This gives kids hope that the average kid can achieve great things if they go for it.
Favorite Video Game: Just Dance 2018
  • Kids love to move. 
  • Kids love to show off their skills.
Here are some tips for translating this insight into your ministry and using it to connect with and engage kids in your lessons, events, programs, etc.
Take your kids on the "adventures" found in the Bible.

Bring mystery and the expectation of the unknown into your lessons.

Turn your teachers into fun characters who take kids on Bible Adventures.

Show kids people in the Bible who overcame great difficulties and obstacles.

Bring the entire family together for events and programs.

Use crazy experiments in your lessons.

Show kids the supernatural forces in the Bible that battle each day.

Show kids how they can be superheroes for God and do great things through His power.

Give kids the opportunity to make a difference and show them the impact they can make.

Keep kids interested by mixing things up and consistently bringing in new elements.

Use fun, crazy over-the-top characters in skits, videos, etc.

Give kids opportunities to be creative with crafts, art projects, etc. 

Use humor...lots of humor in your services.
  
Use animals in your lessons.  Here is an "Amazing Animals" series that we created that kids love.  Filmed with legendary animal expert, Jack Hanna, it uses animal examples to teach kids key Bible truths.  Below is a video sample from the series.  Click here for more info.  The series is available as an instant download.

Give kids opportunities to be creative with crafts, art projects, etc.

Let kids move, move, move when they worship.

Use music genres that today's kids connect with. 

Here's one last tip - Kids obviously love awards shows.  That's why we created a lesson series called "The iCan Awards." 

The series takes kids to a Nickelodeon style awards show where they meet four kids in the Bible who made a major impact for God.  From these kids in the Bible, they discover that God can use them to impact eternity as well.  Clear steps are given so kids can know how to be used by God now and when they grow up.
  • Lesson 1 - The Courageous Kid Award (David)
  • Lesson 2 - All Ears Award (Samuel)
  • Lesson 3 - Helping Hand Award (Little Maid of Israel)
  • Lesson 4 - Big Giver Award (Boy with Lunch)
Below is a sample video from the series.  You can get more info. at this link.  The series is available as an instant download.
Bring these elements into your ministry and you'll have kids cheering!

Check Out The New Toys Kids Want in 2018 and What It Means

It's important to stay up-to-date with toys that are coming on the scene.  Toys give us insight into what today's kids like and are drawn to.

Here are some interesting toys that are set to be extremely popular this year.  Think about why kids are drawn to these and what you can learn from it as you seek to connect with today's kids.

Exit: The Sunken Treasure Game - Escape rooms are gaining popularity and this game includes everything kids need to create their own escape room.  The game is set in a nautical theme.  Kids are sailing on the Santas Maria, but then something goes wrong and they must figure out how to escape a watery grave.

Other versions available include The Secret Lab, The Abandoned Cabin and The Pharoah's Tomb.



What it means:  Kids love mystery, solving puzzles, clues, etc.  Think about how you can bring these elements into your lessons and programs.

How about creating an escape room activity at your church where kids have to solve Bible clues to get out?  Or perhaps an escape room that families can do together that teaches them Bible truths?  I"m thinking about rooms like Paul...Escape JailProdigal Son...Escape the Pigpen, Jonah...Out of the Belly of the Whale, etc.

Moonlite Storyteller for Phones - Remember the Spinmaster from when you were a kid?  You looked into it and clicked through the slides to see a story unfold.  Now there's a new, tech savvy version.  This new version hooks into your cell phone to project the story slides onto the wall.  And the only battery you need is the one on your cell phone.



What it means:  Kids love stories.  Especially when they are told creatively.  The Bible contains the greatest, true stories ever told.  Make sure you're using lots of stories in your lessons.  Also use pictures to illustrate the stories.  A picture truly is worth a thousand words.

It also means we should equip parents with tools and resources to share the stories of God's Word with their children.  Think of ways you can help parents make bedtime story rituals that will help them disciple their children.

Soccerborgs - Kids can control two little robots that compete against each other in a soccer game.  The game comes with two robots, two soccer goals, two balls and a sticker pack so kids can personalize their robots.

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What it means:  Kids love competitive games where they are in control.  Use review games, team competition and other types of interactive games in your ministry.  Also give kids choices and control over elements of the games.

Trido Blocks - A magnetic building block set that contains octahedron and tetrahedron shapes that kids can use to build any character, building or shape they can imagine up.



What it means:  Kids love to use their creativity to build things.  Think of ways you can give kids opportunities to build, create and use their imagination in your lessons.

Stickbot Space Movie Set - This is a miniature movie stage set that allows kids to create their own stop-capture movies.  It includes a background and space set props.  There will also be other movie sets including a farm, castle and more.



What it means:  Kids love helping tell stories.  Let kids act out the stories of the Bible.  Let kids create short videos of Bible stories.  Get kids involved in creatively expressing the stories of the Bible.  

Mixed by Me Thinking Putty Kit - The kit includes everything kids need to create putty with their own colors.  The kit comes with three special effect pacts, including magical glow putty.  The Holo kit has three sparkle effect putties.



What it means:  Kids love to use creative, hands-on crafts and activities.  Bring fun crafts and activities into your lessons.  Kids also love anything that involves slime, putty, wacky science experiments, etc.

Do You Know the Latest Lingo of Today's Kids?

When a missionary goes to another country to minister, they learn the language of the culture they are trying to reach.  You and I are missionaries to kids and if we want to be effective, it's important that we stay tuned in to kid culture.  Just as someone speaking another culture's language would give them an instant connection point, being able to know what the latest kids' lingo means can give you an instant connection point with them. 

It's also important to remember that new kids' lingo can emerge in a matter of days and fly under the radar of adults.  Some of the sources the lingo can come from are older siblings or teens who they look up to and want to be like, TV shows, viral videos they've seen, pop culture, school teacher jargon and social media.  Much of the social media language is an acronym or shorthand because of messaging character restrictions.

Here is some of the latest lingo.  See how many of these you know.

Movie Van - a mini-van with a DVD/entertainment package

Jell-O - hair gel

Spicy - hot, minty or carbonated

Old McDonald - the man who owns McDonald's restaurant

Snap - the message / picture / video sent through Snapchat app, the act of contacting someone through the Snapchat app

Streak - 3 or more daily exchanges on Snapchat

Slide into DM - contacting someone through a direct message

Bae - boyfriend, girlfriend or crush

GOAT - greatest of all time

Lit - fun, amazing, cool

Savage - cool, awesome, brave or unexpected

Bruh - short for brother

Square up - get ready to fight

Juke - quickly planting and then sidestepping in football to avoid a tackle, a quick fake out

Meg - dribbling a soccer ball between your opponent's legs

Posterize - dunking a basketball over someone, an embarrassing in your face move

Cross you up - to confuse someone who is guarding you by quickly dribbling the ball from one side of the body to another

Verse - to play against someone or battle someone

Grind - to keep performing a move until you achieve a change in status / points

Catch me on the sticks - inviting someone to find you in a multi-player video game

Come get this work - a challenge to come and chase you or get you

Trigger - to emotionally upset someone

Octoball or Gaga - a game similar to dodgeball but played on the ground in an octagonal ring

Fam - close friends

Finna - going to / fixing to

Gucci - good, cool

High-key - saying something important that you want everyone to know

Low-key - saying something privately that you don't want everyone to know

Kek - to laugh out loud

Peep - take a look at something

RT - to retweet or agree with something someone says

TBH - to be honest

Thirsty - desperate

PAP - post a picture

IDEK - I don't even know

Dime -  a 10, on a rating scale of 1 to 10, the very best

Your turn.  What is some other kid lingo you have heard?  Share with everyone in the comment section below.

KGOY...Do You Know What This Critical Abbreviation Means?


If you want to reach today's kids, there's an abbreviation you need to know.

KGOY

Here is what it stands for.

Kids Growing Older Younger

It's true.  Kids are growing up faster.  Marketing directors say 8 is the new 13.  Childhood has changed.  Here are just a few examples.
  • Kids are leaving toys behind at younger and younger ages.  An example is Mattel, the maker of Barbie dolls.  In the late 1990's, their average target age was 10-years-old.  Today it is 3-years-old.
  • Sesame Street used to be targeted for 3 to 7-year-olds.  Now the target age is 3-4 year-olds.
  • The National Cosmetology Association reports that in the early 2000's the rule of thumb for a girl's first hair coloring appointment was 15-16 years-old.  Now it is 10-years-old.
  • Ask kids what gift they want the most and they will respond, "a cell phone."  And many do have one.  22% of kids ages 6-9 have a cell phone and 60% of kids ages 10-14 have one.
  • 9, 10 and 11-year-olds are now “tweens” who want to be teenagers rather than children.
  • Babies are put in front of "genius" videos.
  • Preschoolers are using tablets and laptops.
  • Forever 21 is a regular shopping destination for 9-year-olds.
  • 80% of parents think their kids are growing up too fast.
  • A Microsoft survey found that the average age children start surfing the internet unsupervised is 8-years-old.  And we know that with just one click, kids can be exposed to violence, pornography and obscenity.
  • 90% of children use their "play time" watching TV, playing video games or using computers.
This means you can't minister to kids like when you were a child.  Many churches are doing children's ministry like it is still 1980 and are struggling because of it.  Kid culture is not the same as it was even 10 years ago.  We must be willing to change and adjust what we are doing if we want to be effective.  This means being a student of kid culture and keeping up with current trends.  Know what they are streaming, know what they are reading, know what video games they are playing, know what music they are listening to, know what YouTube channels they are subscribed to, etc.  The goal is to look through the eyes of today's kids.

It is also important to remember not to "talk down" to kids.  Kids, especially tweens, quickly steer clear of anything that appears 'babyish."  And this includes how you communicate with them in your lessons, conversations and correspondence.  It is especially important to remember to target the oldest child in the room when you are ministering to multiple ages at the same time.  An example would be if you have a class of 1st - 5th graders.  Instead of bringing your lesson down to the 1st grade level, you should take it to a 5th grade level.  Do this and you will capture the attention of all the kids in the room.
I talk more about this in the book "If Disney Ran Your Children's Ministry."  The truth is, with today's kids, a pre-teen service should look and feel a whole lot like a middle school service.

Give kids the opportunity to serve in roles that have traditionally been reserved for adults.  In every child's heart, is the desire to be trusted, feel significant, be seen as important, have the power to make their own choices and find a purpose.  Though they may not verbalize it, this is a big reason why they want to "be a big kid" and "grow up."  They see growing up as the pathway to get these needs met.  They can't wait to be teenagers, whom they see as having more opportunities for this.  Secular marketers know this and for the sake of profit, have geared their products to meet these inner needs of kids.  And kids, who long to "be big," have gravitated toward it.

For years, the church has made the mistake of suppressing this, telling kids instead to "sit still and be quiet."  Be seen, but not heard.  Our intentions were good.  We pushed back against the marketers who were trying to make our kids grow up too fast.  In some ways, this was a good thing, but the flip slide is, in doing so, we missed the the one area that kids should definitely grow up faster in...serving Jesus with their gifts and talents.

Kids can be greeters right along with adults.  Kids can help teach lessons.  Kids can lead worship in the "big service."  Kids help run the sound system.  Kids can pray over people.  Kids can lead people to Jesus.  Kids can go on mission trips with their parents.  On and on we could go.  It's time we let kids grow up faster in this area and in doing so we will see more of them serve Jesus for a lifetime.  It has been proven time and time again that kids who serve grow up and stick with their faith.

KGOY...keep this mind if you want to be effective.

4 Huge Lessons Children's Ministries Can Learn from the Lego Company


The Lego Company began in the workshop of Ole Kirk Christiansen, a carpenter from Billund, Denmark, who began making wooden toys in 1932.  In 1934, his company came to be called "Lego."  The word Lego comes from a Danish phrase which means "play well."  In 1947, Lego expanded and began producing plastic toys.

What started in a carpenter's small workshop has grown into a global enterprise that is now the world's largest manufacturers of toys.

At the center of Lego's success is the Lego brick.  It has been named the "Toy of the Century" twice.  In a day when many traditional toy companies struggle to compete with digital toys such as video games, the Lego brick remains a constant best-seller.

What makes Legos so appealing to kids?  If you look closer, there are some huge lessons children's ministries can learn from the success of Lego.  Here are 4 of them.

Lesson #1 - Keep it simple. 
Lego makes plastic, brightly colored blocks.  They focus their efforts on these simple bricks and do it with excellence.  They have not had a safety recall in over five years.  Each brick contains a numerical code that can be traced if there are any issues.  Their focus allows them have a high level of efficiency and precision.

Takeaways for children's ministries:
  • Focus on doing a few things with excellence. 
  • Constantly evaluate and track what is most effective.
  • Pour your time, energy and resources into what you are focusing on.
Lesson #2 - Find out what kids like. 
A big secret behind Lego's success is their commitment to studying how kids like to play.  Lego is the largest private sponsor of play research in the world.  They go beyond focus groups and study kids playing in real life.  They have even gone in-depth as watching kids' brains at play under an MRI.

In their research, they noticed that kids were the most engaged in sustained play when they were focusing on mastering a skill and making something.  Lego has used this research to build a deep understanding of what is fun for kids.  They understand what's important to kids and how to create experiences that are deeply meaningful to them.

Takeaways for children's ministries:
  • Watch kids during your services, classes, programs and events.  Make a note of what they respond to well. 
  • Be willing to change and tweak what you are doing as you watch how kids respond.
  • Our goal should be to engage kids with God's Word.  Information without engagement will fall flat.
Lesson #3 - Stay current with the culture. 
Notice how Lego packages their bricks based on what is going on in the culture.  If Star Wars is popular in the culture, Lego will create Lego Star Wars kits.  If superheroes are popular in the culture, Lego will create Lego superhero kits.  If Disney Princess is popular in the culture, Lego will create Lego Princess kits.  The foundation, the basic shapes of the Lego, stays the same, but how it is packaged changes to stay current with the culture.

Takeaways for children's ministries:
  • Stay current with kid culture. 
  • Our foundation, the Bible, doesn't change, but how we package it must change so kids can connect with it. 
  • Relevance is not an option.  It is a necessity.  
Lesson #4 - Involve parents.
Lego is the only toy company in the world that claims to capture the interests of both kids and parents.  Parents see their kids concentrating, making things and learning.  Kids enjoy building, creating and mastering.  It's a win for both kids and parents.  It is also a toy that gives kids and parents the opportunity to build things together and have a shared experience. 

Takeaways for children's ministries:
  • Show parents the value of what their children are learning and experiencing in your ministry. 
  • Provide opportunities for kids and parents to have shared experiences.
  • Extend what is happening at church into the home. 
Praying for you and your ministry as you help kids and parents "build" a strong faith foundation!

A Great Idea to Help Your Volunteers Connect With Kids

One of our staff members has started providing his volunteers with a great tool to connect with kids during pre-service and in their small groups.  It's a list of things that are currently trending in the world of kids.

The list includes movies, video games, tv shows, music, clothing, sports and other interests of kids.  This gives the volunteers talking points with the kids.  He emails the list each month and also posts it in the volunteer room at church.

When missionaries go to a different country, they study the culture so they can connect with the people they are trying to reach.  We should do the same for the kids we are trying to connect with and reach.

I remember walking into a room at church and seeing a boy sitting in the back by himself.  He wanted nothing to do with the service.  I sat down beside him and tried to find out why he didn't want to participate.  Nothing doing.

So I decided to try something else.  I asked him what kind of video game system he had at home.  Suddenly, his frown turned into a smile and he began to talk with me.  After several minutes of talking about video games, he was ready to be part of the service and joined in.  See the difference it makes when you enter a child's world?

You've heard the saying - "Kids don't care how much you know until they know how much you care."  One way you can show them you care is by talking about their interests.

If you'd like this month's list of kids' trends, feel free to email me at dalehudsoncm2@gmail.com and I'll be glad to send it to you.